Love U - Cobblestone Court & Co.

Love U today, tomorrow and always.......

Always wait to hear the reason.....

It doesn't matter how young you are or how seasoned in love. Every relationship is different and cannot be compared to another. I look at it like a newborn baby. Only that particular Mother and Father could create that child. As in love the only two that can create a specific relationship are the two individuals in the relationship. Of course there will be similarities and there will also be diversities. Is there convention or rules in a relationship? No! The complexities only need be recognized by the two who understand and live it. Anyone who stands in judgement of anothers relationship really need to step back and see what works and doesn't work in their own. The matter of fact is the life, the love and the heart and soul only two can share. It is in the understanding and devotion that will make things work. And when the heart sinks in complexities, although it is easier said than done, always wait for the reason for the despair you are feeling. Nine out of ten times sense will be made and understanding will prevail.

Every day is Valentines day.....

In my experience many Men either fear or put up with Valentines day. Don't get me wrong there are Men that love it too. No matter what the situation, belief or disbelief you really have to look at, once again, what works for that individual couple. If your man treats you daily to romance and forgets or chooses not to celebrate Valentines Day than do yourself a favor and Shhhhh...If your man has to be reminded, primed and prodded to remember, my question to you is why do you want something that isn't from the heart? I find it interesting when I hear complaints that "I had to remind him" or "he's getting better at it". When I hear this the excitement would be lost for me. If he does something special on a day that is not a "hallmark" holiday and thinks of a romantic gesture spontaneously that would mean more to me than seeing it starred on the calendar as a date he "better" remember. Ladies remember why he is your "Valentine" to begin with..for me it is because he is the one I want to spend my time with and nothing can replace that.

Five elements of a relationship.....

BELIEVE in who you are with, why you are with them and the reasons that brought you together in the first place.

DREAM in the chemistry, creation and future possibilites.

LIVE as if you will be apart for awhile, hold on and cherish the time you have together, make it happy and make parting sweet sorrow.

LAUGH when you tickle eachother with wit and charm, smile with your eyes when you look at eachother and be spontaneously playful.

LOVE.....with all your heart.

Hold these five elements near and dear and every day will be an "I love you" kind of day.