It doesn't matter how young you are or how seasoned in love. Every relationship is different and cannot be compared to another. I look at it like a newborn baby. Only that particular Mother and Father could create that child. As in love the only two that can create a specific relationship are the two individuals in the relationship. Of course there will be similarities and there will also be diversities. Is there convention or rules in a relationship? No! The complexities only need be recognized by the two who understand and live it. Anyone who stands in judgement of anothers relationship really need to step back and see what works and doesn't work in their own. The matter of fact is the life, the love and the heart and soul only two can share. It is in the understanding and devotion that will make things work. And when the heart sinks in complexities, although it is easier said than done, always wait for the reason for the despair you are feeling. Nine out of ten times sense will be made and understanding will prevail.